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Arguing With Parents Helps Teens Handle Peer Pressure

Having a teenager with the debating skills of a courtroom lawyer may be a blessing in disguise. According to the findings of a study conducted by researchers at the University of Virginia and published in a recent issue of the journal Child Development, teenagers who are able to hold their own during family discussions are better able to resist pressure from their peers to use drugs or alcohol.

Psychologists from the University of Virginia followed 184 teenagers over a three-year period, interviewing them at ages 13, 15, and 16. They also observed the teens interacting with both family members and friends.

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Chris

Chris

Chris Hudson is an Australian Youth Specialist, Parent Coach, and Educator dedicated to helping adults build authentic relationships with teenagers. With over 25 years of experience, he shares insights on navigating the dynamic world of adolescence through his platform, Understanding Teenagers. When not coaching or speaking, Chris enjoys family adventures on the South Coast of NSW and playing very average tennis. He does not enjoy always losing when playing Nintendo with his kids.

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